While Betty Friedan is best known for her groundbreaking work "The Feminine Mystique," which played a crucial role in the feminist movement of the 1960s and 1970s, she has contributed numerous insightful quotes on various topics related to women's rights, equality, and societal expectations.
Here are 50 quotes attributed to Betty Friedan:
1. "The problem that has no name—which is simply the fact that American women are kept from growing to their full human capacities—is taking a far greater toll on the physical and mental health of our country than any known disease."
2. "Aging is not lost youth but a new stage of opportunity and strength."
3. "Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women's denigration of themselves."
4. "The feminine mystique has succeeded in burying millions of American women alive."
5. "It is easier to live through someone else than to become complete yourself."
6. "No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor."
7. "The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own."
8. "Aging is not 'lost youth' but a new stage of opportunity and strength."
9. "I've yet to be on a campus where most women weren't worrying about some aspect of combining marriage, children, and a career. I've yet to find one where many men were worrying about the same thing."
10. "To see what has been in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle."
11. "It is better for a woman to compete impersonally in society, as men do, than to compete for dominance in her own home with her husband, compete with her neighbors for empty status, and so smother her son that he cannot compete at all."
12. "Men weren't really the enemy—they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to kill."
13. "Women are the only exploited group in history to have been idealized into powerlessness."
14. "The feminine mystique says that the highest value and the only commitment for women is the fulfillment of their own femininity."
15. "The problem lay buried, unspoken, for many years in the minds of American women. It was a strange stirring, a sense of dissatisfaction, a yearning that women suffered in the middle of the twentieth century in the United States."
16. "The problem with no name. Today's suburban housewife is the most desperate housewife in the history of the world."
17. "I've often thought there is nothing sweeter to the mind of man than the applause of his fellows."
18. "The problem... was to find some simple way of diagnosing this condition in ourselves and our friends. I think I have found it."
19. "Aging is not 'lost youth' but a new stage of opportunity and strength."
20. "It is not possible for a woman to be honest and happy unless she is in a job for which she was really needed."
21. "You are not born a woman. You become one."
22. "Man is not the enemy here, but the fellow victim. The real enemy is women's denigration of themselves."
23. "The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own."
24. "The problem that has no name—which is simply the fact that American women are kept from growing to their full human capacities—is taking a far greater toll on the physical and mental health of our country than any known disease."
25. "A woman is handicapped by her sex, and handicaps society, either by slavishly copying the pattern of man's advance in the professions, or by refusing to compete with man at all."
26. "The problem is not that today's kids don't read. The problem is what they read. We need to encourage young people to read the good books that teach them the best and worst about themselves, others, and the society in which they live."
27. "What Friedan gave to the world was, ‘the problem that has no name.’ She not only named it but dissected it. The concept of ‘the problem that has no name’ was a key to understanding that the housewife’s feeling of dissatisfaction was shared by countless other women."
28. "It is easier to live through someone else than to complete yourself. The freedom to lead and plan your own life is frightening if you have never faced it before. It is frightening when a woman finally realizes that there is no answer to the question 'who am I' except the voice inside herself."
29. "The feminine mystique has succeeded in burying millions of American women alive."
30. "The suburban housewife – she was the dream image of the young American women and the envy, it was said, of women all over the world. The American housewife – freed by science and labor-saving appliances from the drudgery, the dangers of childbirth, and the illnesses of her grandmother..."
